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Personalization
"How
personalized can a funeral service be?"
We
encourage your unique inspirations. For examples of those, we have handled
caskets transported in a mule or horse-drawn hearse, pickup trucks and a
horse drawn wagon; pumpkins, family arranged corn stalks and straw bale décor
in our chapel; art and craft displays, including paintings, quilt, doll
and tractor collections, etc.; and media input such
as music, DVD designed photos and interview video
footage.
Whether
you wish to set up a funeral service program or have our
funeral
home
staff attend to your wishes, we encourage you to feel comfortable in allowing your
creativity to go with your imagination. And, to our delight and that of
families, even children respond with curiosity and joy when home
surroundings and familiarities are included in tribute services. We encourage
children's input too and distribute our Celebration of Life gift
coloring books which include surprise service
involvement ideas.
Roland Funeral Service specializes in personalization for
you and your loved ones. For the most valuable personalization
experience, we recommend preplanning. Visit with a staff
person to learn how we can help you to create loving
memorials.
Special
Personalization
Other services by
Rolands include the following: web and news obituary listings; individualized
memory records with poems/scriptures and photos; prayer cards,
register
books (which include family history; pictures of flowers with notes of
who sent them; photos of those who attend,
sing, officiate, bear the casket, gather
in cemetery, join your family at your luncheon, etc.);
casket (photo
collage) head panel
inserts; casket theme-based corner attachments; music
selections; picture slideshow
memorial DVDs; funeral service
DVDs; funeral service audio tapes or CDs; viewing area with personal
memorabilia; service programs including personal testimonials;
individualized monument creations; thumbprint, urn locket and teddy bear
keepsakes; and picture memorial candles.
Distinctive
Personalization
In our 90 Years,
Rolands has carried out the preferences of many families. The
following have created meaningful and memorable
experiences:
While we provide
refreshments for visitations, some have personalized theirs
by featuring their Loved One's Favorites
~ providing for the
serving of coffee/tea with pound cake; milk and Grandma's cookie jar
filled and overflowing with her favorite cookies; individually
wrapped burgers were handed out after one funeral; and a wine and
cheese memorial gathering may be fitting.
DISTRIBUTIONS of cards with gardenseeds to be planted for a
memorial to Dad; organ donar pins and bracelets; copies of Mom's own poems or
recipes; recorded memorial interviews; and helium-filled
BALLOON/BUTTERFLY RELEASES at gravesides;
We have acquaintance
with a friend who makes EVERLASTING LOVE KEEPSAKES of bronze
painted Face and Hand Forms. The outcome is an
awesome remembrance upon which one can see and run their fingers over
the contour of their beloved, ever recapturing the features of
the precious love one.
"THUMBIES" feature
the treasured Thumb Prints of all ages and Hand Prints and Foot
Prints of miscarriages, stillborns, and small children who have untimingly
slipped away; these may be made into dimensionally imprinted silver or gold
charms which may be attached to necklace chains, rings or
keychains.
ATTENDING OF
DECEASED LOVED ONES IN-STATE can be a time for
reminiscing and healthy processing of thoughts. In days gone
by it was common for folks to attend a wake for the purpose of spending quiet
time for meditation and prayer before the farewell
service. In recent years, some
have attended their loved ones for several hours, paying
their devoted respect.
On separate
occasions, families of both a mother and a sister were attended by
their daughters and sisters who gathered to ASSIST WITH FINAL TOUCHES in
the dressing and cosmetizing. The ladies gained satisfaction from
seeing to it that their loved ones' appearances were "Just like
they would have wanted."
At Rolands closure is highly
valued and we go out of our way to help make
the experiences as pleasant as possible.
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